I will mention that I do respect the privacy of the people I talk about. However if their story has something to offer in the way of an example I am going to use their story while omitting certain identifiable information about them. Many of my real world friends do read my essays and some of them can figure out who I am talking about, or maybe it’s them. One friend I mentioned in an essay got a little mad at me because I wrote about him generally. I think he felt shame for his behaviors more so than anything that I may have alluded to in writing. However that same friend’s behaviors and attitude were such that they could have been attributed to any beta who consistently fails with women. It’s not out of disrespect that I use their stories or my own personal observations about people I know. It is in the spirit of helping others that I do what I do.
So yes if you want my advice about something and there is a bigger lesson to be talked about I am probably going to talk about you, but not you, just your story.
That is my disclaimer.