Blood, guts, gore and twisted metal. Like slowing down to gawk at the carnage left behind from after a very bad accident, the sheer horror seeing it fascinates us. This is what far too many men are finding in their marriages and relationships. I do blame the men for their lack of testicular fortitude. I really just want to slap them hard to knock them out of their stupor. At least calling Tom is a step in the right direction.